Horoscope for Thursday, November 21
Like a bird trying to get out of its cage, today you'll be trying to get a better understanding of what truly sets you apart from your loved ones. And under the influence of Uranus, your need for independence won't be easily satisfied.
A thousand questions will cross your mind, but you won't be able to find answers for all of them at the moment. Fortunately, in this particular astral context, you can count on the benevolent help of Mercury, that will encourage you to be completely open about your doubts to your family, your partner or your lifelong friends.
This support will help you to not do something irreparable and not to act on a decision that you might soon regret. By the end of this November 21 you'll understand that your need for affirmation doesn't necessarily mean you will be alone. People are there to help you in difficult days as well as happy ones.
On Thursday, you'll be only too happy to give destiny a nudge to get what you want. However, there is nothing to indicate that your recklessness will be rewarded.
You can still be happy with yourself as this boldness is the sign of great strength of character. After all, you weren't born under the sign of Cancer for nothing!
Cancer in love
You might not have realized it until now, but the idea of love and living as a couple are just reflections of societal norms, not all of which may suit you. Are you committed to a long-term relationship? Today you will seek to find a new point of balance between your needs and those of your partner, in order to feel more comfortable with what happens in the everyday life of your relationship.
To get your message across, communication and respect for your partner will be key. Are you single? Perhaps you'll be wondering whether your need for independence and your misconceptions about living in a relationship are keeping you from meeting the right person. A lot to think about!
In a relationship: you want to assert yourself more
Although more often than not you accept the game of love has rules and you agree without hesitating to make the effort needed to keep your relationship solid, today you'll be looking for some independence. You don't have any intention of ending your relationship, but you still feel that a little change could be life saving.
You currently feel the need to create a space just for you, in which you will have the time to recharge your batteries. Rest assured, this is a perfectly legitimate feeling. It will help you to get a better understanding of what you want.
Single: why are you so vocal about being independent?
Although it's perfectly understandable that you want to be independent, nevertheless you shouldn't take this desire to extremes. Today you'll begin to realize that what's really behind your need to be alone is the fear of abandonment.
By discussing this fear with your friends, you may be able to find the beginnings of a solution. You have enough time in front of you to solve this problem at your own pace, without forcing yourself to make sudden changes or do things that don't feel natural to you.
Cancer at work
On November 21, not only will you be happy to continue doing what you are expected to do but you'll also definitely have some opportunities for development. You are keenly aware of what you're worth and what you could bring to the table, so you don't see why things shouldn't change soon.
This ambition is laudable, but be careful not to upset your colleagues' egos. To achieve your ends, you'll need to show a little diplomacy!
Opportunities: things are finally settled
Congratulations! Your motivation, your rigorousness and your desire to progress have finally been noticed. If you pay careful attention to your professional environment it shouldn't be long before you see new opportunities emerge.
Take the time to think carefully about the potential consequences of your decision before making your choice. In short, there is no point in rushing. Your loved ones will be invaluable to you in this.
Cancer and money
Since you, rightly, believe that you deserve comfort, plenty and security, today you'll want to consider the most effective ways of improving your financial situation in the long term. What things could you consider?
The development of your career, of course, but also savings plans and better management of your income. You just have to find what works best for you.
Your prospects: will you dare to take risks?
Your need to assert yourself may cause you to take unnecessary risks and embark on a path that you might not have taken in a different astral context.
Remember that taking a risk can be as harmful as it can be beneficial, so choose with your mind as well as your heart.
An overview of your day of November 21
On this November 21, the influence of Uranus will fortunately be thwarted by that of Mercury. Therefore, despite their fierce desire to assert themselves in the eyes of the world and the risks inherent in such recklessness, today Cancers will benefit from an astral climate favorable to their development.
At work or at home, you may be tempted to do whatever you can to advance your project, without taking enough time to think about the potential consequences of your decision. Happily, your natural prudence will encourage you to share your plans with your friends and family, which will help you to get a better understanding of the issues you are currently facing.
During a meal or at the coffee machine, you'll welcome their advice with open arms. In your emotional life, you'll seek to free up a personal space that will give you some time to refocus on yourself and your needs.
My tip on how to make the most of today
Over time, you'll learn to feel more confident about your life plan and will probably no longer seek to change it every time you meet a little problem. This consistency will be a valuable asset for your development. As society dangles lots of glittery things in our faces, it can be tempting to compare your fate with that of other people.
You should remember that these judgments are pointless, especially if they make you feel jealous, guilty or discouraged. To paraphrase a great poet "a human being owns nothing forever, not their strength, nor their weakness, nor their heart".
