When Aries and Gemini are together the first thing that is obvious is how well they understand each other. Despite their differences, they fit together well. There's no need for words, it only takes a glance or a wink for each to understand what the other is thinking.

Aries is a passionate and enthusiastic being while Gemini's liveliness and spontaneity are very seductive. Suffice to say that their first feelings are both intellectual and physical. Despite the obvious attraction between these two signs, their union is still not a path strewn with roses. Geminis are deeply attached to their freedom, they are variable, mobile, ever changing and in love with their independence. Aries do not have the same way of looking at life. For them an exaggerated need for freedom hides a desperate need to keep moving and they often feel abandoned and neglected by Geminis who like to lead a very active social life. Although Aries can also lead a hectic life, they still like to feel supported and encouraged in their projects and need someone to restrain their tendency to be impulsive.

Under these conditions, tensions can easily arise because Gemini can quickly feel trapped in a relationship where they are blamed for a lack of commitment or passionate demonstrations of love. Even if Aries doesn't always show it, they need to be listened to and receive proofs of affection if they are to feel reassured and able to fulfil their obligations outside of their couple.

In order for an Aries/Gemini duo to stay on track, they need a common project where they can combine their enthusiasm, courage and intelligence to support a cause than is bigger than they are. If they can manage to compromise on their respective needs for independence and security, this is a union that can last.

Consensus

autonomy, security, mutual understanding

Conflict

jealousy, boredom, changeability

Communication and emotion between Aries and Gemini

When you put a Gemini and an Aries together you can expect one to emit an uninterrupted stream of words while the other tries to listen attentively right to the end of the monologue. Suffice to say that this operation can sometimes prove complicated as Geminis often talk just for the sake of it, while Aries like to get straight to the point. However, these two can have interesting conversations. In fact, Gemini is the undisputed master of gossip and loves to divulge everything they know to anyone who'll listen. In return, if Aries is willing to be patient and put their ego aside for a moment so they can learn some useful tricks, they can both benefit from a very rich dialogue.

And there's no point lying, both Aries and Gemini find it difficult to talk about emotions. The fire sign often experiences strong emotions but has a real problem expressing them. And the very rational air sign is not at all emotional. They prefer to stick with what's on the surface and don't want to go digging into feelings. Fortunately, Aries is not the type to let go when they feel the need to be heard by Gemini. They are capable of encouraging their partner to take part in a constructive dialogue in order to take stock of their relationship.

Trust between Aries and Gemini

Between Aries and Gemini, trust is a subject that creates a lot of discord. Gemini is a bit of a butterfly. They are constantly in search of new horizons and new people, and it's difficult to keep them under a bell jar or control them in any way. It cannot be said that Gemini is unfaithful by nature, but they need change so much that if they don't find the freedom they need in their relationship, they will look for it elsewhere.

Obviously, this will create conflicts with Aries who is passionate, positive and jealous! Very often, Gemini isn't even aware of their frenzied individualism and changeability. As a result, Aries struggles to have complete confidence in Gemini. At best, they may get angry with their partner's distracted or distant behavior. At worse, Aries may just go looking for happiness with someone else, even if they are still in a relationship with Gemini.

Intimacy and sexuality of Aries with Gemini

Aries is always in conquering mode and tends to burn a little too quickly for Gemini, who remains very cerebral and perhaps too soft for the fire sign. The air sign has a very playful approach to bedroom games. In fact, they have a real need to play and seduce before they move on to more serious things! The ideal would be for Aries to retain some of their mystery and learn to let themselves be desired, so that Gemini can get their fantasy machine rolling.

It has to be admitted that these two signs aren't always on the same wavelength when it comes to sexuality. One is in a hurry and the other likes to take their time to enjoy things and inflame their desire. Nevertheless, if they can get in tune and be attentive to the other's needs, they can have sublime moments together that blend passion, energy and curiosity.

Compatibility in love

An Aries man with a Gemini woman: these two have an undeniable mutual understanding. Despite disagreements and disputes, they know how to preserve tenderness within their couple. Miss Gemini is very attached to her freedom, and she is clearly not one given to demonstrations of emotion, since she runs away from anything that could possibly represent a constraint. Mr Aries may have a tendency to react jealously when faced with this behavior. On the other hand, if he does his best to grant her freedom and she does her best to express warmth, this union has every chance of working well.

An Aries woman with a Gemini man: Miss Aries and Mr Gemini are very complementary, but this is not a union that is exempt from, sometimes violent, storms. A Gemini man is often immature in his behavior. This has its charm, but in the long run will end up irritating an Aries woman. Since the latter needs passion and proof of love, she will not tolerate the independence and distant attitude of the Gemini. Moreover, Miss Aries often criticizes Mr Gemini for being governed by his head instead of his heart. In order for the relationship to be long-lasting, it is better that this couple have a basis in solid friendship and not just in carnal desire.