Consensus
trust, loyalty, love
To unite Aries and Virgo is like playing double or quits. Either they complement each other wonderfully, or they are always arguing because their differences are irreconcilable. Their relationship is by nature fragile as their characters are opposites. The only way for this association to work is with lots of compromises. If each partner manages to borrow qualities from the other and they can establish a constructive dialogue, there is a chance that their relationship will work over time but it will require a lot of effort on both sides.
Aries is known to love adventure and challenges while Virgo fears insecurity, hence the likelihood of frequent disputes. Virgo is meticulous, orderly and conscientious; although they admire Aries' liveliness, they are also afraid of it. Above all, they do not want to feel dominated by the lively fire sign, even though they do need some fantasy and extravagance in their life. What they desire is a calm, harmonious and traditional relationship with their partner. Aries is proud to be admired by Virgo and knows they are totally trustworthy.
Nevertheless, Aries also wants Virgo to show a bit more drive and spirit. They are well aware Virgo can bring the stability they lack but also know they shouldn't rely on Virgo to spice up their daily life.
Ideally, if these two want to live in harmony Aries needs a slightly crazy Virgo, or one who has a fire sign in their ascendant. If they recognize each other's faults and make a real effort to communicate, a certain alchemy can operate in spite of everything.
trust, loyalty, love
insecurity, impulsiveness, incomprehension
In terms of communication, the dialogue between Aries and Virgo can be complicated when it comes to expressing their feelings. With regard to everyday life, subjects of discord are frequent. Aries has a tendency explode or get on their high horse instead of explaining themselves calmly. Virgo also has a tendency to get aerated and can unleash a real storm on Aries if something sets them off. They are capable of going on for hours until Aries admits they're in the wrong.
On the other hand, although their daily life together can be difficult, they have an excellent intellectual understanding when it comes to discussing a common project and making it bear fruit. And when it comes to expressing their emotions, they are much more on the same page. The ideal for them would be to be friends before they become lovers. In this way, they'll learn in a more dispassionate way how they each of them works. And it is in this context that Aries tends to be the gentle and considerate person that Virgo adores.
If there is one area where Aries and Virgo are in perfect accord it is trust. Against all the odds, if these two signs manage to get along in bed and in their everyday lives, fidelity should not be an issue. Even if Aries is known for being a bit of a seducer, once they are committed, they remain loyal.
Virgo, for their part, is a model of virtue and trust is one of their priorities. If Virgo doubted their partner, they wouldn't be able to sleep at night and wouldn't hesitate to nag Aries until they confessed. One thing Virgo hates more than anything is lies. A Virgo is an innately honest being who expects the same from Aries. If not, beware the backlash!
Under the covers, it is Aries who takes the initiative most of the time. They like to show they are irresistible and at that game, they manage to win over Virgo with disconcerting ease. Virgo may be surprised but appreciates that Aries can trigger such a storm of pleasure. If Aries is determined to make Virgo lose their head, they will succeed. In the early days of their story, therefore, their intimate lives can resemble a romantic comedy punctuated by passionate thrills.
Aries is not known for long foreplay. They usually go straight to the point, and this can suit Virgo at the start of a romantic relationship when everything is new, beautiful and vibrant. However, in the long term, Virgo may get the impression they are only there to satisfy Aries, who doesn't seem to care whether the satisfaction is mutual.
An Aries man with a Virgo woman: these two signs seem to have opposing ideas of life. The fiery charmer who is Mr Aries is not really the ideal companion of ordered, discreet and completely honest Miss Virgo. That said, their relationship can flourish if Aries manages to gain the full confidence of his partner and offers her the security she needs. For this, he will have to put his ego on one side and encourage Miss Virgo to become more outgoing. If Miss Virgo is able to express more emotions and demonstrate her love for Mr Aries in a tangible way, their bond can work very well.
An Aries woman with a Virgo man: the Virgo man is cautious and discreet and doesn't like being noticed. He wants to manage his romantic affairs in private and hates exposing his feelings in public. On the other hand, Miss Aries is expansive and impulsive. Mr Virgo admires this character trait in her, but it is out of the question for him to behave in the same way. Because he is very introvert and doesn't like effusive behavior, he risks being reproached for his lack of dynamism and imagination. Despite the admiration that Mr Virgo has for Miss Aries, conflicts are bound to arise regularly.
Even if Aries sometimes finds it a little difficult to understand earth signs at work, the fact remains that they recognize Virgo has a great sense of teamwork. Virgo is stable and consistent and not discouraged by detailed tasks. On the other hand, Aries' passion and enthusiasm can push Virgo into action. Quite often, Virgo only needs a little push to dare to try and let their talents shine.
Aries appreciates Virgo's meticulous and methodical organization, although Virgo's irrational fears and worries are beyond their comprehension. If the two manage to coordinate their abilities, it is a team that will work very well.
As an employee, Virgo is no gift to Aries because they know what they are doing and will not be pushed into doing things badly. Aries had better be honest and not create waves.
As a boss, Aries can have total confidence in Virgo, even if they do seem excessively timid. Virgo will do their best with what they are asked to do and will make of point of working hard and meticulously.
rigor, trust, enthusiasm
spillovers, anarchy, fear
Unlike romantic relationships, where Aries and Virgo can experience complex situations, friendship is more favorable to them. They are both very loyal and may have common tastes even if they do not always approach existential issues from the same angle.
Aries is a very busy being, with little time to devote to their friends, and the adult Virgo is very similar. Virgo is so busy with personal and professional commitments that they have little time for close friends. They have as few real friends as Aries, although they know those friends can be counted on, despite time and distance. They may not talk to each other for months and then meet up because one of them finally decides to check in. And their reunion seems to magically happen as if no interruption had taken place.
Virgo finds Aries exciting and sometimes thinks they would enjoy being more like them. In particular, they envy Aries' ability to let go of insoluble situations, their lightness of spirit and their ability to see a future for themselves. Aries appreciates Virgo's practical side and the judicious advice offered when they are in trouble. Obviously, their connection can also be stormy, especially when Virgo thinks it's necessary to tell Aries that they are out of order. Aries also tends to want to dominate Virgo, who will make it very clear that this is no way to behave around them. Despite these little issues and frequent distancing, they often come back to each other because their bond is really strong.
righteousness, loyalty, support
domination, annoyance, criticism
As far as family relations are concerned, Aries and Virgo can get along well so long as they are not forced to marry. Their approach to life is far too different unless each one is prepared to make a lot of compromises. If Aries manages to accept that Virgo will always want a life as well-regulated as a Swiss watch, and if Virgo can tolerate the restless unpredictability of Aries, their daily life together can be pleasant enough. Of course, this implies that the negotiating table remains permanently open at home.
From the point of view of other family ties, such as between siblings, agreement is perfectly possible. Aries can encourage Virgo to escape their many fears and push them out of themselves, because nothing makes Aries happier than seeing Virgo grow thanks to their help. And even if Aries has to push Virgo hard, they won't hesitate because they know Virgo deserves to be seen. On the other hand, the earth sign is the ideal person to refocus the fire sign and prevent them from wasting their energies, as they tend to do. Virgo can act as a sort of safeguard for Aries. Obviously, Aries doesn't always appreciate some of the things Virgo says as they can be a bit of a killjoy, but when Aries thinks it over, Virgo's logic and natural prudence can often be a life saver.
reciprocity, compromise, acceptance
boredom, disapproval, difference
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